wannaexit
It really is a sad realization that we wasted someof the best years of our lives in the cult. The thing is, no matter what we would have accomplished, we would still be here now. Perhaps just beginning something or even starting over in some way. That's what I remind myself of when I get discouraged because of the wastefulness.
That thought doesn't undo the damage, but it does put it in perspective for me. Hope it helps you a little.